"I Don’t Like Having My Picture Taken": A Common Concern and a Unique Approach
“It is an illusion that photos are made with the camera... they are made with the eye, heart and head.”— Henri Cartier-Bresson
It’s something I hear often: “I don’t like having my picture taken.” Many people feel uneasy in front of the camera, and booking a photo session can be a little intimidating. But if you’re here, you likely recognize that your family, relationships, and life’s moments are your most cherished treasures—deserving of more than just a quick snapshot. The portraits I create aren’t just images; they’re lasting stories, rich with memories and emotions.
When we focus solely on posed photos, we can miss out on what truly matters. A camera can feel like a mirror, but one that doesn’t let you see yourself directly. That often leads to distracting thoughts like, “What do I look like? Is this my good side? Is my hair okay?” These questions can take you out of the moment, even creating distance from your true self and your loved ones.
And just like the airplane safety rule of putting on your own oxygen mask before helping others, having a healthy relationship with yourself is essential to connecting deeply with those around you. When you feel at ease and present, your genuine self shines through, and that’s what I strive to capture.
Through my sessions, I aim to reveal these authentic connections—both with yourself and with the people you love. It’s in those subtle smiles, shared glances, and little interactions that true beauty comes alive. If you’d like to know more about my approach, I invite you to check out my blog post on the power of attention in photography.
If what you’re looking for is more than just a picture, I’d be honored to help create art that holds your relationships and legacy within it. Let’s make something you’ll be proud to display and treasure every day.
